Friday, August 9, 2013

Five Minute Friday: Lonely


Mimi too this with my iphone. A woman who needs grace. :)

She walks with her head held up high and carries herself with an air of confidence. By studying her you can tell her makeup is applied in a flawless fashion. Her clothes are always coordinated and flattering, from her cropped denim to her slingbacks. On the outside she's got it all together. She's got the looks, the confidence, the career, but on the inside there is an aching void. She's walking lonely. Her loneliness has been her only constant companion all these years.  It came along side her many years ago when she saw some things in herself she didn't like. She's gotten stuck in her shame. When we get stuck in our shame we let loneliness be our companion. She's gotten stuck in her past mistakes buying into the lie that she's not worthy of God's love and redeeming sacrifice. She assumes all the other people appearing to have it all together actually do. When really she should assume they are just like her...walking wounded.

Let's face it we are all walking wounded and prone to get stuck in our shame. We are prone to let loneliness be our companion out of fear. No one can really be as ( bad, unworthy, selfish, stupid, fat, ....) as I am. We think our sin outweigh others' sins but more than that we think our sin outweighs grace. But here's the beautiful truth...sin can never outweigh grace. Grace can never be undone or outweighed. You can never outsin grace. You could be the most outrageous sinner on this planet and grace would still abound. So come to the one who came for the wounded. Allow Jesus to look at the shame and cover it with his lavish grace. We don't have to walk through this life lonely but looking good. We can replace loneliness with community because of grace. We can accept who we are because of grace. We can do life with love because of grace. All is possible because of grace.

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8 comments:

  1. hey - i'm your neighbor @ 5mf this week - very wise words here. not only to we need to recognize our own wounds - we need to see the wounds of others and i don't know about you, but i often find that healing comes for me when i invest in encouraging another and helping them to heal.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by Richelle! Great thoughts on healing too! I agree! :)

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  2. Rita, I loved your line, "We can replace loneliness with community because of grace." In participating in community, we can provide comfort in the manner we have received comfort. It's so beautiful how the Lord has given us tools for living beautiful and abundant lives with one another. Enjoy your day!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by Tina! God is so good for blessing us in that way for sure!

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  3. I think if we all could remember this making friends might not be so difficult, sometimes. If we could remember to extend more grace then we could be more approachable. And if we remember to lay down our preconceived notions then we might just be able to reach out to more people. Thank you for your words on grace today.

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    1. Thank you Sara! You are so right about extending grace and laying down preconceived notions. We need to be more open for sure. Thanks for your lovely thoughts. :)

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  4. Thank you for stopping by. This post gave me chills because this girl you describe is me before I accepted Jesus in my life. I look back and cherish how far I've come thanks to Him and his unconditional love.

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    1. So glad to hear that you are on the other side of this now. Jesus is so good to take us and transform us. This too described me as well. Thanks for stopping by. :)

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